
Debtor shackles

I have a question on debtor shackles...If person is not online when time is up for a trade and I get shackled for not paying my debt, how is it my fault? And does my item get taken that I worked very hard to pay on...I have the gold right now to pay debt, but person has not been online for days now. I have 3-5days to finish trade and am very concerned about this. Thanks for time taken to respond